- Philip Cross 1798-1866
- Sarah Freeman 1802-1829
- Robert Newell 1804-1855
- Ann Atkin 1808-1869
Eliza Cross was the fifth of the eleven children of Jacob and Mary Ann Cross (née Newell) of Ely, Cambridgeshire.
When Eliza was just 13 years old, her mother died and by the time she was 18 years, her father had remarried.
Eliza married John Lavender of St. Mary's Street, Ely and the couple went on to have at least four children.
1855, Ely in Cambridgeshire.
25th February 1855 at St. Mary's Church, Ely, Cambridgeshire.
- John Lavender (18??-?) on 4th April 1874 at St. Mary's Church, Ely, Cambridgeshire.
- Hannah Elizabeth Lavender (1874-?)
- Ethel Maud Lavender (1876-?)
- Kate Lavender (1877-1895)
- Henry Lavender (1879-?)